I am I a virgin if me and my boyfriend had sex I mean he went in side of me and every thing and afterwards there was a little spotting like litteraly like 5 dots that day then a few more dots of blood I have no clue weather or not my haymen is brokenyet or not so I'm like ccompletely comfused.. help please.. :confused:

I do believe if he actually went inside of you and there was some bleeding... then you are not a virgin!

No, you are no longer a virgin. Once penetration occurs you are no longer a virgin.