bryt
Apr 24, 2008, 11:54 AM
So I am new to this site, but I thought I would give it a shot! I hope this is in the right section to.. I wasn't quite sure where to put dream topics...
Ok on to my question
In a nutshell I am going to give you a little history about this situation before I ask about these dreams. I became friends with this guy almost 8 years ago, I am not really sure if we had a connection then or not. You see this guy was the "it" guy for a lot of girls. To me he was just a cool guy to hang out with and talk to.
Several years into our friendship, we decided on night to take this to a different level. Neither of us were seeing anyone seriously at the time and honestly I thought it was pretty much going to be a one time thing and that was it. This has continued off and on now for several years.
This is where the dreams start. Probably about 1 year after we started hooking up, I would dream about him. Not sexual dreams at all.. and a lot of the times he never even spoke to me in these dreams. Some times I would have them every week and other times every other week to once a month... some times I would dream of him several times a week.
Again they were just random dreams with him showing up or being in them. This stopped for about 7 months though. In this 7 month time span, he proposed to his fiancé.
Probably about 5 months into the engagement, I started dreaming of him again.. again nothing sexual, in fact the one dream was just his phone number on a piece of paper.
I have had two dreams in the years of dreaming of him that I feel could have possibley meant something.
One were he was driving down a road that I was walking down, stopped and said, " I miss you".. further conversation went on but I don't quite remember all of it.. I know it was raining though.
The other dream was I was watching him and his fiancé talk to a wedding cordinator speak to each other, his fiancé left the room, and he looked at me and said, " What the hell did I get into"
Ironically him and his fiancé are not engaged anymore, for various reasons... but I still dream of him.
I am currently in a somewhat serious relationship. I mean we have our typical couple fights everyonce in a while, but I love him and could possibly see myself married to him in several years.
I guess my question is what do these dreams about this guy, who I never really had any feelings for, or really dated, but I do consider my friend.. mean excatly??
I thought when I met my current boyfriend that these dreams would almost disappear.
But I still have them.. and I really can't figure out why??
Any help would be GREAT@!!
Ok on to my question
In a nutshell I am going to give you a little history about this situation before I ask about these dreams. I became friends with this guy almost 8 years ago, I am not really sure if we had a connection then or not. You see this guy was the "it" guy for a lot of girls. To me he was just a cool guy to hang out with and talk to.
Several years into our friendship, we decided on night to take this to a different level. Neither of us were seeing anyone seriously at the time and honestly I thought it was pretty much going to be a one time thing and that was it. This has continued off and on now for several years.
This is where the dreams start. Probably about 1 year after we started hooking up, I would dream about him. Not sexual dreams at all.. and a lot of the times he never even spoke to me in these dreams. Some times I would have them every week and other times every other week to once a month... some times I would dream of him several times a week.
Again they were just random dreams with him showing up or being in them. This stopped for about 7 months though. In this 7 month time span, he proposed to his fiancé.
Probably about 5 months into the engagement, I started dreaming of him again.. again nothing sexual, in fact the one dream was just his phone number on a piece of paper.
I have had two dreams in the years of dreaming of him that I feel could have possibley meant something.
One were he was driving down a road that I was walking down, stopped and said, " I miss you".. further conversation went on but I don't quite remember all of it.. I know it was raining though.
The other dream was I was watching him and his fiancé talk to a wedding cordinator speak to each other, his fiancé left the room, and he looked at me and said, " What the hell did I get into"
Ironically him and his fiancé are not engaged anymore, for various reasons... but I still dream of him.
I am currently in a somewhat serious relationship. I mean we have our typical couple fights everyonce in a while, but I love him and could possibly see myself married to him in several years.
I guess my question is what do these dreams about this guy, who I never really had any feelings for, or really dated, but I do consider my friend.. mean excatly??
I thought when I met my current boyfriend that these dreams would almost disappear.
But I still have them.. and I really can't figure out why??
Any help would be GREAT@!!