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Cheerbabe09
Apr 21, 2008, 01:32 PM
So I'm sure you read my last question on here... so here's another. If I'm really going to try to move on, there's a guy that likes me... should I give him a shot or be single and work on myself for now? This guy is like my best friend... and I don't want to screw anything up.

Fr_Chuck
Apr 21, 2008, 01:49 PM
OK, no I did not and many others may not have read your past posts.

But you need to first be sure of yourself and not be depending on someone else. So if you are over the other person, content with being on your own, then you are ready to date. Don't just start using another person as a crutch to get over another person.

HistorianChick
Apr 21, 2008, 02:15 PM
I agree with Fr... Work on you.

A rule of thumb for relationships:

You have to be completely one before you can be completely two. You have to know who you are, what you enjoy, your dreams, your wishes, your personality, your strengths and weaknesses, your self before you can honestly start a relationship with someone else.

Keep working on you - you're doing well... :)

JBeaucaire
Apr 21, 2008, 03:16 PM
If you have to ask the question, err on the side of caution. Work on you.

bigbird213
Apr 21, 2008, 03:21 PM
I agree with the above postings, especially since you have a friendly history with this person. That would make it all the more painful if things went South.

Best of luck.

talaniman
Apr 22, 2008, 11:18 AM
This guy is like my best friend... and I don't want to screw anything up.
If your not sure, then its best to not make any changes, that may affect the friendship.

beenaroundtheblock
Apr 22, 2008, 12:11 PM
As a junior in High School Please work on you, you'll have time to work on relationships a little later in life. Like after College.