When you consider yourself a not a virgin, what does this mean? How much does the penis have to be in to be a virgin? What if the guy is in like with the tip of his penis like a centimeter... are u a virgin still?

This might help as you seem confused: Virginity - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virgin)

Sex is sex, you of course can consider yourself anything you want, This is a argument we have here on the exact term every few months, So not everyone is in agreement but if you have had sex, then you are not.

Hahaha... that's a funny but interesting question. Well, obviously when the penis entered the vagina... it's no longer a virgin anymore... even on how much inch, centimeter it was in... as long as you've experienced the sex. Definitely you're not a virgin anymore. :D

Sex is sex, you of course can consider yourself anything you want, This is a arguement we have here on the exact term every few months, So not everyone is in agreement but if you have had sex, then you are not.

Okay I understand now.. the situatin is not me I was just curios because I hear soman different things from people and I just wanted to know... because I thought you were a virgin if you haven't had sexual intercourse... what is a virgin to you?

Yes, your still a virgin if you don't have experiencing something obviously "sex"... that you've never been touch and kiss by anyone... that's the meaning of a virgin for me.

Yes, your still a virgin if you don't have experiencing something obviously "sex"... that you've never been touch and kiss by anyone... that's the meaning of a virgin for me.


Yea.. I haven't had sex... but what would be your definition of sex

Everyone has sex. The definition of sex is what gender you are. Either male of female. But that's not what you are asking. What you are asking is what is sexual relations or initimacy. This can be defined as ANY contact between one person and the sexual organs of another person. So kissing someone on the lips is not sexual relations, but kissing their breasts is. Some people might even include "french" kissing as part of sexual relations. But clearly, if you are touching a female's breasts and/or crotch or a male's penis then you are engaging in sexual relations. While sexual intercourse (penile insertion) is part of sexual relations, it doesn't have to be. Engaging in sexual intercourse means loss of virginity, other parts of sexual relations doesn't.

I certainly hope this clears this up ONCE again.

Everyone has sex. The definition of sex is what gender you are. Either male of female. But that's not what you are asking. What you are asking is what is sexual relations or initimacy. This can be defined as ANY contact between one person and the sexual organs of another person. So kissing someone on the lips is not sexual relations, but kissing their breasts is. Some people might even include "french" kissing as part of sexual relations. But clearly, if you are touching a female's breasts and/or crotch or a male's penis then you are engaging in sexual relations. While sexual intercourse (penile insertion) is part of sexual relations, it doesn't have to be. Engaging in sexual intercourse means loss of virginity, other parts of sexual relations doesn't.


Yes... he's definitely right!. :)

First, please don't ask questions via PM or e-mail. All questions and follow-up should be kept in the thread.

Nitpicking in this issue is ridiculous. If you want to claim you are still a virgin because you only stuck the tip in, be my guest. The fact is that, if you got that far you have had sexual relations. So whether you are a virgin or not, especially for a male, is moot.

A centimeter is in your not a virgin I'm going to try to keep my virginity through high school