BoonesDad
Apr 15, 2008, 11:27 AM
Hey all. I'm hoping some of you may have some advice for me. I have a 4 month old Hound/Lab mix. He's doing well in the potty training arena. He'll wander off to the door when he needs to go out, and only has accidents when I miss him wandering to the door, or am not paying attention. That's my fault, so no biggie.
I work 40hrs a week like most people, and am not able to go home during lunch. Luckily, my x-girlfriend lets him out during lunch, and takes him on a walk more often than not. He spends his days in a crate and at most if left alone for 4 hours at a time.
I let him sleep with me at night, our bedtime is usually around 10-11 and we wake up at 6 every morning. He's been sleeping with me at night since the x left, and has yet to have one single accident during the night! So, he's shown that while sleeping at night he can hold his bladder for 7-8 hours at a time! Wow!
Here's the problem... I leave for work at 8am, which gives us 2 hours to hang out in the morning, wear off some energy, and take him outside to relieve himself before he goes in the crate. I leave the radio on for him during the day, hoping/assuming this will comfort him in some way. When my X arrives at 11-12 he has peed in his crate! My X will leave the towel lining the crate, forcing him to deal with it, in hopes that he'll soon grow tired of laying in his urine.. Not the case, he continues to pee in the crate, despite knowing that like clockwork, one of us will be around to let him out every 4 hours.
Question: How can he hold his bladder for 7-8 hours a night, but during the day he can't hold it for 4 hours??
I'm beginning to think he has separation anxiety or something? I'm not up to speed on diagnosing that (nor would I be qualified to do so) but have to wonder what gives?
Is there something I'm doing wrong? Should I not leave a towel for him? I've read about lining the crate with a grid.. But.. I want him to stop peeing in the crate, rather than making it easier/more pleasant for him to urinate in it..
Help, I'm doing laundry every day!
Thanks in advance for any advice!
I work 40hrs a week like most people, and am not able to go home during lunch. Luckily, my x-girlfriend lets him out during lunch, and takes him on a walk more often than not. He spends his days in a crate and at most if left alone for 4 hours at a time.
I let him sleep with me at night, our bedtime is usually around 10-11 and we wake up at 6 every morning. He's been sleeping with me at night since the x left, and has yet to have one single accident during the night! So, he's shown that while sleeping at night he can hold his bladder for 7-8 hours at a time! Wow!
Here's the problem... I leave for work at 8am, which gives us 2 hours to hang out in the morning, wear off some energy, and take him outside to relieve himself before he goes in the crate. I leave the radio on for him during the day, hoping/assuming this will comfort him in some way. When my X arrives at 11-12 he has peed in his crate! My X will leave the towel lining the crate, forcing him to deal with it, in hopes that he'll soon grow tired of laying in his urine.. Not the case, he continues to pee in the crate, despite knowing that like clockwork, one of us will be around to let him out every 4 hours.
Question: How can he hold his bladder for 7-8 hours a night, but during the day he can't hold it for 4 hours??
I'm beginning to think he has separation anxiety or something? I'm not up to speed on diagnosing that (nor would I be qualified to do so) but have to wonder what gives?
Is there something I'm doing wrong? Should I not leave a towel for him? I've read about lining the crate with a grid.. But.. I want him to stop peeing in the crate, rather than making it easier/more pleasant for him to urinate in it..
Help, I'm doing laundry every day!
Thanks in advance for any advice!