jkh
Apr 8, 2008, 10:38 PM
I am about to get married, at the end of may, I am 27 he is 34. We have both been married before. He has been divorced 6 years and I have been 4 years. I have a five year old daughter from my first marriage.
I love him to death as does my daughter, and we are usually very happy besides the stress of wedding planning. We have moved in together, that was about 4 months ago and we did it for convience and money reasons. Here latley we have been arguing non-stop. He thinks I'm immature and not responsible with money. I think he is just the same, for the most part. He is messy, I am neat. Obvioulsy these are things you learn when you live together, but...
He knows how to push my buttons and does so on an almost daily basis now. He drives me close to stark raving mad. If I try to talk to him or him to me it winds up as a battle, and one of us will leave to avoid it.
I am starting to wonder if we should get married. I have never had someone make me soooo mad. What do I do? Hope it is wedding stress and it goes away. I know I can not live with the arguing, but if I try to address this it just blows up.
I love him to death as does my daughter, and we are usually very happy besides the stress of wedding planning. We have moved in together, that was about 4 months ago and we did it for convience and money reasons. Here latley we have been arguing non-stop. He thinks I'm immature and not responsible with money. I think he is just the same, for the most part. He is messy, I am neat. Obvioulsy these are things you learn when you live together, but...
He knows how to push my buttons and does so on an almost daily basis now. He drives me close to stark raving mad. If I try to talk to him or him to me it winds up as a battle, and one of us will leave to avoid it.
I am starting to wonder if we should get married. I have never had someone make me soooo mad. What do I do? Hope it is wedding stress and it goes away. I know I can not live with the arguing, but if I try to address this it just blows up.