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ksn66
Apr 8, 2008, 03:54 PM
I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been having unpretected sex I am scared but at the same time I think I can not get pregnant! Honestly I think if I could I would be already... :confused: what do you guys think should I go to the doctors and see if I can get pregnant or should I just keep doing what I do and find out??

N0help4u
Apr 8, 2008, 04:35 PM
Many girls think they can not get pregnant just because they go a year or two without getting pregnant. I was to the point I thought I could not get pregnant and then wham! I was!
So don't assume you can not or you may end up finding you are.
Why the rush to get pregnant anyway? You are only 15 and have a whole life ahead of you!

svatnsdal
Apr 8, 2008, 04:41 PM
What you should do is start using a condom! Be even safer and go on the birth control pill. Like NOhelp4U said, you can not assume!
Go to your doctor and have her/him give you a good birth control pill to use. Please, use a condom!!
Here is a good web site both you and your boyfriend should check out.
Questions and Answers about sex (http://www.avert.org/faqindex.htm)

COOKIE MONSTER
Apr 8, 2008, 04:43 PM
Hun you do not want a baby at 15 really you don't their hard work and cost a lot of money I've got 2 I'm 24 and its bloody hard work at my age it doesn't get easyer with age either

And your boyfriend doesn't want to be tied down with a baby at his age either
It can take up to 2years to get pregnant but your at school and that's what you should be concentrating on not baby's

Alty
Apr 8, 2008, 04:44 PM
If you're having unprotected sex and you are a menstruating female then you can become pregnant, and if you keep having unprotected sex you will sooner or later. You are playing with a loaded gun hoping not to get shot, it's not a good idea.

Use some form of birth control, you are not old enough or mature enough to have a baby. Please use condoms, the pill, whatever, but use it, always!

Good Luck.

Alty
Apr 8, 2008, 04:46 PM
it can take up to 2years to get pregnant

All it takes is once, and there are many women who got pregnant the first time they ever had sex. Don't count of time being on your side, if you are having sex you could get pregnant, anytime.

simoneaugie
Apr 8, 2008, 04:48 PM
If your period is regular, you can use a home test on the day it was supposed to start. Do you want to be pregnant? At age 15 you may not be ready to start a family. How does your boyfriend feel about the possibility of becoming a father, quitting school and working full time?

Becoming a parent is serious business and not something to take chances on. Getting an abortion is both expensive and can be traumatic. I suggest that you use protection, condoms, birth control pills, and those things you can insert all work, especially if you use two or more at the same time. But none of them works 100% of the time. You have been lucky in avoiding pregnancy so far.

How do your parents feel about the chance that they may become grandparents any day now? Do they know? How do your boyfriend's parents feel? Sex can be just between you and him, but a baby will affect everyone around you. If it were me, I'd just avoid the pregnancy issue and have fun. That way, even though no birth control method is 100%, you aren't wondering or worrying or scared all the time.

MOWERMAN2468
Apr 8, 2008, 04:52 PM
Anytime you have sex even with the use of a condom or other birth control you can still become pregnant, there is no birth control that is guaranteed 100%.

svatnsdal
Apr 8, 2008, 04:54 PM
anytime you have sex even with the use of a condom or other birth control you can still become pregnant, there is no birth control that is guaranteed 100%.

That is true, they are not 100%, but they are 98% and that is a hell of a lot better then 0%.