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djosephs
Apr 3, 2008, 07:52 AM
I am not sure what is going on.
My 3 yr old daughter has said some things that are kind of odd. In a house other than ours, she asked me "who is that on the stairs daddy"? As she kind of had a puzzled look on her face. There wasn't anybody on the stairs.
Anyway, for the past month she has been complaining that there are monsters and that she is scared. She is scared of the dark and will not sleep in her bed. She either sleeps in my bed or her grandparent's bed with them (we all live together).
About a month ago she woke up in a panic yelling that she sees spiders and they are trying to bite her. I thought this was a nightmare.
In the past 2 days, it has been really scary as a father to watch.
She has woken up in the middle of the night TERRIFIED! Shaking and telling me that there are monsters and pointing to them. Telling me that there are bees flying around and that I am purple and glowing. She is shaking that she is so terrified. I get up and walk where th monsters supposedly are and she tells me not to go to them in a frantic way.
Last night this lasted from 3am to 6:30am. The night before it lasted a bit less.
She is an extremely smart child and very sweet. She usually does what she is told. Really doesn't give any trouble. This is out of her nature to be like this.
Just as a background. I have had VERY odd things happen since I was a child.
Kind of what she is explaining. Mine was more of a feeling of being pinned down in my bed and unable to move. Unable to yell for my parents.
That went away when I got into my teens but some things kept on.
My television would turn on and the volume would turn all the way up in the middle of the night. My stereo would turn on and off as well as some lights.
Within the last 2 yrs I had an incident where a spoolo of cd's was thrown from the other side of the room (my daughter's room) to the wall. I did not see this happen. I heard a loud bang and walke in to the room
When I lived with a friend of mine, we would both here dishes and footsteps in his kitchen. My friend's TV would turn on and off.
It stopped when I moved out.
What do I need to do to find out if this is her immagination, if she is going crazy or if it is her seeing bad spirits?
N0help4u
Apr 3, 2008, 05:42 PM
Something therapists sometimes do is ask kids to color what they see. You might see if she is able to color some of what she sees.
I am sure something is terrifying her but what I have no idea.
lengkyx
Apr 3, 2008, 05:49 PM
I am not sure what is going on.
My 3 yr old daughter has said some things that are kind of odd. In a house other than ours, she asked me "who is that on the stairs daddy"? as she kind of had a puzzled look on her face. There wasn't anybody on the stairs.
Anyways, for the past month she has been complaining that there are monsters and that she is scared. She is scared of the dark and will not sleep in her bed. She either sleeps in my bed or her grandparent's bed with them (we all live together).
About a month ago she woke up in a panic yelling that she sees spiders and they are trying to bite her. I thought this was a nightmare.
In the past 2 days, it has been really scary as a father to watch.
She has woken up in the middle of the night TERRIFIED!! Shaking and telling me that there are monsters and pointing to them. Telling me that there are bees flying around and that I am purple and glowing. She is shaking that she is so terrified. I get up and walk where th monsters supposedly are and she tells me not to go to them in a frantic way.
Last night this lasted from 3am to 6:30am. The night before it lasted a bit less.
She is an extremely smart child and very sweet. She usually does what she is told. Really doesn't give any trouble. This is out of her nature to be like this.
Just as a background. I have had VERY odd things happen since I was a child.
Kind of what she is explaining. Mine was more of a feeling of being pinned down in my bed and unable to move. Unable to yell for my parents.
That went away when I got into my teens but some things kept on.
My television would turn on and the volume would turn all the way up in the middle of the night. My stereo would turn on and off as well as some lights.
Within the last 2 yrs I had an incident where a spoolo of cd's was thrown from the other side of the room (my daughter's room) to the wall. I did not see this happen. I heard a loud bang and walke in to the room
When I lived with a friend of mine, we would both here dishes and footsteps in his kitchen. My friend's tv would turn on and off.
It stopped when I moved out.
What do I need to do to find out if this is her immagination, if she is going crazy or if it is her seeing bad spirits??
oh my gosh! That's very interesting. Hmmmm. I don't really research on those things because who knows who's telling the truth, right? When I notice strange things that scare me like when there's a rhythmic knock on my ceiling, I would simply pray for the dead. Then, it would stop. If it's random knocking I know it could be the big rats in there or even cats. It may help you and your daughter. No harm in trying. Peace!
N0help4u
Apr 3, 2008, 06:01 PM
I would pray for peace. At least with my faith you are not to pray for the dead don't know about others faith.
lengkyx
Apr 5, 2008, 12:22 AM
Okay no help. Sorry about that. How do you guys get those nice titles? :D
rebeltequila
Apr 5, 2008, 01:46 AM
This is going to sound strange but have you thought that prehaps she is very lucky and gifted with a 6th sense maybe you should try contact a phych to talk with her. Also this could be something she will grow out of I remember seeing things hearing things and knowing that what I was seeing was there the only way I found to combat it was to say in a loud voice GO AWAY YOUR NOT WELCOME HERE DON'T COME BACK maybe you should teach her to say this phrase try agreeing that the monsters are there and ask her to discrib them and to tell you more about them you could both sit there and repeat in a strong voice GO AWAY YOUR NOT WELCOME HERE DON'T COME BACK you will only make her feel worse if you sit there and tell her nothing is there try get her to open up and talk about what she is seeing this way she will be able to eventually relax if you tell her to strongly believe and say it in a loud voice GO AWAY YOUR NOT WELCOME HERE DON'T COME BACK and she truly believes it will help she may be able to send these visions off as she gets older she probably won't need to say anything and they will eventually disaperar
simoneaugie
Apr 5, 2008, 01:56 AM
Sometimes we are connected to spirits. It sounds like both you and your daughter have this connection. I don't think it's evil or that it has anything to do with Satan.
Asking her to color what she has seen is an excellent suggestion. Prayer is good too. Other than that and what you're already doing, see a good psychic. Many poo poo this as Satan worship. I do not believe in Satan as taught by the Christian church.
She could be telekinetic (or you) or schizophrenic. I doubt mental illness. See a well recommended psychic and ask plenty of questions.
black111madonna
Apr 7, 2008, 01:53 PM
Your daughter must be a very sensitive child that's why she picks up those things, in this case it scares her and it would be good for her to feel protected and that she can come up for herself. I have experienced this myself as a child and the same happened with my daughter. I taught her exactly what Rebeltequilla already said to just tell it to go away, that it is her space and the visitor is not welcome there. I also gave my daughter a stone; labradorite (there are other ones you can use) and this stone will help as a protection against negative or unwanted energy. It also closes the aura and gives a very save feeling. It could be helpful to clean the room with your thoughts and fill it up with love and colors. Maybe light a candle and burn some incense... if you want to go further put salt in the corners, use herbs. Give your child some relaxing herb tea before going to bed and a massage which can be very healing.
It could be possible that the nightmares and monsters is a reaction from some kind of food due to additives which the body has a hard time to digest.
Another possibility would be that the child is going through some fase of insecurity, experiencing the big bad world as a little human.
naf01
Apr 17, 2008, 09:02 AM
Hey there... im 20 and I used to have things like that happen when I was little... the worst thing you can do is tell her she is imagining it or making it up, even if it is a nightmare, its so scary and real that being told its fake will make her withdrawn. When things used to talk to me and I would see them (same age... from about 2 to 7) I would just tell them to go away and leave me alone. Give her something that will make her feel protected... even if it is something stupid like a flashlight... so that she knows she can turn on the light and everything will go away, even something like a religious item, cross, statue, prayer card (if you are christian)... if it doesn't stop after that, that's when you should move on to finding out if something evil really is in your house... people say that young children see things more easily because of their innocence so chances are she will grow out of it with age anyway.
black111madonna
Apr 18, 2008, 03:20 AM
Hey naf01 look at the topic from: Do children really see ghost better then adults?
There I explain one and other. Greetz.