Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and he ahs just broke up with his girlfriend. I want him back so much but I don't know how to get him back I really love him please help:(

Why did you guys break up in the first place if you both love one another so much... Remeber Ex's are normaly Ex's for a reason... Can you give us all a little more info too see if we can help... And Sarah Welcome to the forum.

Let me see, you broke up a month ago, he already got a girlfriend and is now broke up with him.

I will agree with nwsflash you need to think of what happened to cause you all to break up. At times we do over react and break up when we did not really want to.

How about calling him say " I was thinkinig about you" and see where it goes from there.

Valentines day is coming up (I think) inviting him to a dinner.

He was on cocaine and he just went weird and just broke up with me. I don't know why we broke up. I just want him back I miss him and I'm scared to phone him just in case he don't want to know please help me I don't no how to get him back:(

You should stay well cear until you know that he has kicked the drug problem because you, him and drugs don't mix as a couple... That is a bad mix! You need to move forwards with your life instead of living in a false world praying for him. Why do you think he ain't going to be weird now if he is all mixed up in drugs and stuff??

His coming off it I want to ring him but I don't know what to say please help me :(

Hi, sarah,
You will be much, much better off not messin around with someone who used, is on, is coming down from, or has anything to do with Cocain.
You are known by the company you keep, and this Cocain stuff could possibly rub off on you also, with you taking it.
Stay CLEAR of anyone who messes with it.

For get this guy for at least 1 year - that is a very serious, addictive, hard drug. It's takes MONTHS to get off it - my best friend git stuck on that stuff after trying it at a party a few years ago. His wife kept catching him on it - people WILL lie, cheat and literally steal when on that stuff... strung along on it.

I bet $1 million he has a drinking problem as well - they go hand in hand.

He needs to be sober and prove it for over 1 year.

Forget this guy.

People want what they can't have - that's why you want him.

Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and he ahs just broke up with his girlfriend. i want him back so much but i dont know how to get him back i really love him please help:(
Hey sarah try to contact him call him or ask him to get out you have to meet this guy you have to talk to him by any way and don't be scared try to talk to him one time I'm sure he will gets back to you if he really loves you.

They are right sarah... bad news. At least for now. And he needs a LOT of time to get his sh*t straight. Its not easy but people CAN overcome it. In the meantime, it would be like you and this guy who has a mistress... that's exactly what an addiction is... a mistress. He will lie, cheat, and steal. I went down that road for years and years... he is the ONLY one that can bring himself back.

Find something else to do besides mooning over some guy who has problems and will probably drag you down with him.Before you love a guy like that, love yourself enough to avoid the problems he has, as he cannot love you back,don't you think you can do better?:cool:

Cocain is such an awful drug. As any drug is. I understand that you miss him and you want him back. But its only been a month. He might say that he's trying to quit, but its so easy to be influenced to do it again, especially if he's around others that do it. He needs to help himself before he is ready to be in any relationship. You can't fix him because you think you know what's best for him. He has to want it and find it on his own. There are so many other guys out there who are completely worth your love and effort. If you get back with this guy, odds are there will be problems. He will care about getting his fix before thinking of you and you don't deserve to put yourself through that. Do what's best for you. I don't think getting into a relationship with a guy that has a drug problem is doing any good for you.