kochi
Mar 28, 2008, 01:28 PM
So I went through the whole break up I need space time etc l
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/will-she-come-back-186700.html
So after NC for about a month I kind of figured, hey wait a minute I'm going to get closure.. I need to hear those words, definitively, cause I am not giving up on something I believed in! And all I could think about was her, every morning 3am up and just thinking. So this is what I needed to do, get closure. Cause I'm not going to worry about someone that doesn't love me or want anything with me.
NC for me was like samuel L jackson in changing lanes near the end when he tells his AA homie that he has not had a drink and he is basically told that he has learnt nothing from it (ie, alcohol is still ruining his life even though he is not had a drink.)
Anyway, I called (till she answered) up and said look, obviously you have been ignoring anything I have said and tried to do, so just say it, say you do not love me or that there is no chance of us getting back together and I will leave you be. Won't do it cause its "not true." Yet she wants me to move on because she doesn't want me to wait around, BUT she doesn't want me to give up. And I tried getting those words out of her 4 times, pissing her off to no end but she won't say it... How do you move on from someone who says they love you and that's not going to change, and there is still a possibility of getting back together, but move on..!
What the hell does move on mean? I doing all the things I've always done, nothing more nothing less. Im super busy etc. So to me move on is like saying its over, yet when I explained that, it was like, "no it is not."
Oh well...
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/will-she-come-back-186700.html
So after NC for about a month I kind of figured, hey wait a minute I'm going to get closure.. I need to hear those words, definitively, cause I am not giving up on something I believed in! And all I could think about was her, every morning 3am up and just thinking. So this is what I needed to do, get closure. Cause I'm not going to worry about someone that doesn't love me or want anything with me.
NC for me was like samuel L jackson in changing lanes near the end when he tells his AA homie that he has not had a drink and he is basically told that he has learnt nothing from it (ie, alcohol is still ruining his life even though he is not had a drink.)
Anyway, I called (till she answered) up and said look, obviously you have been ignoring anything I have said and tried to do, so just say it, say you do not love me or that there is no chance of us getting back together and I will leave you be. Won't do it cause its "not true." Yet she wants me to move on because she doesn't want me to wait around, BUT she doesn't want me to give up. And I tried getting those words out of her 4 times, pissing her off to no end but she won't say it... How do you move on from someone who says they love you and that's not going to change, and there is still a possibility of getting back together, but move on..!
What the hell does move on mean? I doing all the things I've always done, nothing more nothing less. Im super busy etc. So to me move on is like saying its over, yet when I explained that, it was like, "no it is not."
Oh well...