:confused: I feel I have been treated disrespectfully in my own home with no defense. I know if I let this go it will happen again. I was thinking of setting up some "house rules"... Can anyone help? Do I need to be more specific?

Do I need to be more specific?

Yes!

If you cannot express yourself more here, how do you expect anyone around you to take you serious? You need to be more assertive or expressive, and by all means explain some situation here so that we can understand the problem better.

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Set up house rules. If they can not follow them then do not invite them back.