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cubeyfun
Mar 23, 2008, 08:16 AM
Bsically I am fairly new to sex, not had it that much, but when its going in it feels like its rubbing on me and can sometimes hurt. Secondly and most importantly when its over I always have wind from my vagina, its really really embarrassing for me, and it just slowly comes out for the rest of the night, but if I'm lying there with my boyfriend I find it so embarrassing. The other thing that bothers me is I'm all wet after sex, and it goes on for a while, and when I get wind it like bubbles, I'm not sure if the wetness is like a discharge or come or what, but its not nice to lie there naked after as it is really wet. What is it and how can I get rid of it? Also I often feel a bit sore for a while after, its sort of like a raw skin feeling, is this normal, sometimes it burns to wee the first time after sex.
Credendovidis
Mar 23, 2008, 08:24 AM
First of all go to the toilet after sex. That allows fluids and pocketed air to escape.
No need to feel embarrassed by the experience. Many males find it quite funny!
The burning feeling you experience afterwards seems to indicate that you require some slight lubrication before actual penetration. However do not overdo that!
And make sure to tell your sexual partner when and what hurts during sex.
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Alty
Mar 23, 2008, 09:35 AM
The above is very accurate. I just want to add one thing. It sounds to me like you are having unprotected sex. Is that the case? If so you are playing with fire, a loaded gun, etc. Please use protection, or do you want a baby or an STD?
hollylovesbrandon
Mar 23, 2008, 11:04 AM
The wind is perfectly normal as it happens to most of us. Don't be embarrassed, just laugh it off. Most men understand and accept it as a normal part of the sexual experience. Also, the burning when pee, normal. No need to worry. It might just indicate that you needed a little but more wetness before the intercourse took place. By some lube and that will most likely fix your problem.And my best advice is to go to the bathroom after sex every time and clean yourself off so that the "fluid" is not as bad. You might want to take a shower after sex, it's good hygiene.
Id something hurts or feels weird don't be afraid to say ouch, or that hurts or stop, whatever you need to. Sex is not meant to be painful, it's meant to be enjoyable... for the both of you. And as Altenweg says, NEVER have unprotected sex. I think the disadvantages speak for themselves.
Choux
Mar 23, 2008, 12:14 PM
Credendo gave you good information... I would like to add that I have noticed from questions to the board that young folks are spending too much time rubbing and stroking the female genitals instead of getting really hot prior to penis insertion.
Female genital discomfort and bladder infections are caused by too much male genital rubbing. No more than five minutes of actual intercourse *after* having gotten all hot and moist. That worked for me and kept my genitals all healthy and happy. :)
afaroo
Mar 23, 2008, 02:49 PM
How old are you?
cubeyfun
Mar 24, 2008, 04:04 AM
We don't have unprotected sex, however I am on the pill as well, we did once, and it slipped in so much easier, and caused less pain for me, which means it must be the condoms that rub me raw or whatever. I'm glad it all seems normal, and ill try going to the toilet after sex from now on, I am 21 and my boyfriend is 22.
delene hutson
Oct 29, 2012, 05:21 AM
It seems as though your having uprotected sex,and the pain after when you urine that's normal durin sex if any pain be wise enough to tell partner!