avalee
Mar 22, 2008, 11:51 AM
Ok so I posted this in relationships, and got some nice answers... there are some additional details I wanted to post, so I hope you guys can give me some insight. Very confused right now... thanks...
So here's the deal... met this guy last year a few weeks before he got deployed to iraq. We went out a couple of times, then he was serving over there for about 7 months. Within this time, we wrote letters and kept in touch. He got back a couple of months ago, and we have been seeing each other on a regualr basis ever since.
He went home on leave, and asked me to fly up and stay a few days in his hometown. I met his family, and most of his friends. His actions tell me he wants a relationship, but he is not verbally very open with me and I have a hard time reading him. Recently, on his myspace bulletin, when asked about his relationship status he put "not sure". I care for this guy a great deal, I am crazy for him! In a good way lol... please help me with this! I am scared that if I ask him point blank how he feels, it mihgt scare him away. He makes a lot of effort to see me... I just feel we are holding back from each other. What do you guys think? Additionally, he went home yesterday for a couple of days for the easter holiday, and did not ask me to go. I understand he may need a couple of days to himself, but he hasn't called me and has barley texted me. It's about an 11 hour drive, and I knew he would be getting there really late last night, so I texted him and asked him if he could let me know when he got there safely. Still have not heard from him..?. kinda confused right now... is he pulling away?
So here's the deal... met this guy last year a few weeks before he got deployed to iraq. We went out a couple of times, then he was serving over there for about 7 months. Within this time, we wrote letters and kept in touch. He got back a couple of months ago, and we have been seeing each other on a regualr basis ever since.
He went home on leave, and asked me to fly up and stay a few days in his hometown. I met his family, and most of his friends. His actions tell me he wants a relationship, but he is not verbally very open with me and I have a hard time reading him. Recently, on his myspace bulletin, when asked about his relationship status he put "not sure". I care for this guy a great deal, I am crazy for him! In a good way lol... please help me with this! I am scared that if I ask him point blank how he feels, it mihgt scare him away. He makes a lot of effort to see me... I just feel we are holding back from each other. What do you guys think? Additionally, he went home yesterday for a couple of days for the easter holiday, and did not ask me to go. I understand he may need a couple of days to himself, but he hasn't called me and has barley texted me. It's about an 11 hour drive, and I knew he would be getting there really late last night, so I texted him and asked him if he could let me know when he got there safely. Still have not heard from him..?. kinda confused right now... is he pulling away?