I had been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. He had previously been the guy that dated someone then quickly moved into another relationship, however none of his relationships were very meaningful. Until me that is. We were very much in love, I never thought I could love someone more and I had never felt for anyone else what I felt for him and from my knowledge he felt the same. We were planning on moving in together in about 6 months, and we talked about getting married at some point and being together forever right up until... About 6 weeks ago he broke up with me saying that his feelings had changed and we had changed, so he needed time and space to see if we were meant to be. We talked and argued about this for the next month, especially because I found out that he started seeing someone else within about 2 1/2 weeks of us breaking up. Although he promises me that there was nothing going on between the two of them when we were dating. We have spoken everyday since the break up even though this new girl has been his girlfriend for the past week and a half (when he asked her out he had just gotten in a fight with me over me talking to another guy at the bar). We have spoken on the phone and through text messages yelling at each other about the break up and what's to come. He wants me to stop and I want him to stop, but he says he has a lot to still figure out but can't promise how hell do it because he doesn't know. Hes doing him right now, and right now I need to do me. He doesn't know what the future holds, but just because it doesn't seem like it now or soon doesn't mean if were meant to be then well be. What are the underlying factors? What does it seem like is going on here? Is she a rebound relationship? Will he eventually come back to me if I all of a sudden give him the space he's been wanting? Is there a future for us? :confused:

Get over him. He has obviously moved on. He has a girl friend, she was probably in the wings when he broke up with you. He was wanting space because he has a new girl friend, he might come crawling back to you if this new girl does not work out, but would you honestly want him back after all this?
You two need to stop arguing with each other and just get on with our lives.

You should stop talking to him don't go near him and if he doesn't seek u out its obviously over. Then you have to move on, go out and party. Just have fun.

Seems like you ignoring his past pattern, one relationship after another, and why are you taking his word about it meaning nothing? Actions speak much louder than words. And his words come easy from practice. Move on dear, he doesn't care how you feel, and it would be a mistake, to hang on to hope. There is none.