To me it is pretty clear that God chose people for salvation, before that person even accepted Him... do you believe that or something different and why

to me it is pretty clear that God chose people for salvation, before that person even accepted Him....do you believe that or something different and why
Hmmmmm : if that is true I can not be blamed for not believing in God. He has not chosen for my salvation. What a pity that I neither believe in God, Heaven, or Hell.
Seems that I now miss out both ways !

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to me it is pretty clear that God chose people for salvation, before that person even accepted Him....do you believe that or something different and why

With the exceptions of a few people in the bible who had specific duties cast upon them, why do you feel it is clear that God chooses the people for salvation, and it is not a personal choice of freewill.

I do not believe that extreme Calvinism can be substantiated by scripture. The only pre-destination that applies to us is:

Eph 1:3-5
3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ:
4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:
5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,
(KJV)

Eph 1:11
11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will:
(KJV)

These words were written to the saints at Ephesus, and tell us what God intends for all those who accept Christ. Believers are predestined to become like Christ.