All right,my wife and I have been married about 2 months,and our relationships a little rocky now and again but its because were like night and day. Recently she had one of her college friends come to stay for a couple of days before she leaves town. My wife's friend husband works as a cable guy for Comcast,he came over to work on her mother's cable lines and while being there supposedly her friend and he sort of hit it off,by talking dirty and chit chatting about non-sense. After he left they began texting and so forth,and some how or another it went from her phone to using my wife's. Her friend left yesterday afternoon,and last night when my wife was in the tub with my son she got a picture text message from the married man. She asked me to see who it was and when opening it,I found a naked picture of himself. I confronted my wife and she claimed it was just for her friend that was texting him,although in the past he's made passes at my wife and dirty comments towards her supposedly for s... and giggles for himself. In the end she said it was no big deal,that it wasn't for her,and she didn't care. Now my wife has problems with jealousy,saying if she had to have found a naked married woman's picture in my phone that she was friends with she would have a come apart... Now am I overeacting to my wife having naked photos of a her friends married husband or misreading the situation?? Any info or advice would be helpful... Thanks...

I think as long as they are now erased and there are no outgoing calls TO him since AFTER the friend left
You are over reacting.
IF SHE WAS the least bit interested in this guy and hoping to have him hit on her over her phone she would have taken the phone in the bathroom with her
Even if she hadn't she would never have told you


"She asked me to see who it was".
Trust your wife and get a message to this guy that you do not appreciate him calling your wife's phone so find another way to contact her friend.

The fact that she told you to check her phone, tell me she had no idea that this would be there. Her mistake was to allow her friend to use her phone to do this, A call to the married man telling him to stop would be on my to do list personally maybe asking him if he would like you to forward copies of those to his wife.

Just tell the guy he looks like and idiot, and leave your wife phone alone, or he gets those pictures posted.

Sending the pix to the married man's wife would be a better choice. She should know of this hobby of his...