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My boyfriend broke up with me. I don't know why because he won't tell me. Every time I call him to ask why or to try to talk, he just hangs up on me. I'm really confused because I have no idea what I did to make him act like this?
How can I get him to talk to me or even better- how can I get him back? :(
SpruNg_08
Mar 6, 2008, 11:00 AM
Question...How old is your boyfriend :confused: That seems like a really imature way to end something. It sounds like he been meaning to break up for a while and is a coward about going thru the whole break up process of explaining why and dealing with the fights and tears. I doubt it was anythin u did because im sure he would use that as his excuse for a break up...if after all that u still want him then give him some space ..the more u push the more he's going to pull away..so leave him alone to his thoughts maybe he'll realize how lame life is w/o u and have a change of heart..but he's gotta miss u first to realize that ;)
I'll keep myfingers crossed for you :)
hello903
Mar 6, 2008, 01:22 PM
Well seems to me if he really cared about you he would give you a honest answer... and even if he didn't care he should still give you a answer out of respect as a person..
youcantstop48
Mar 7, 2008, 11:53 PM
Its sounds like you need to forget out this dude(I know its easier said than done)... move on with your life and find someone that treats you and respect you like you need to be...
Wondergirl
Mar 8, 2008, 12:13 AM
My mother gave me the best advice for this: ignore him. It will kill you to do that, but do it. You'll be surprised by what happens if you do this right and stick to your guns.
JoeCanada76
Mar 8, 2008, 12:21 AM
You can not get him back. Obviously he does not want to talk with you so instead of calling him. Instead of making things worse. You need to back up and away and give him space that he wants. You need to let this go. It will be the best thing you ever did. Why do you want to be with somebody that does not want to be with you. It does not really matter the reason. His mind has been made up. Make up your mind and try to understand this is better for you.