Here are a few of the "oddities" of the relationship at the moment (we've been dating for 3 mos):

1) He's stopped saying he likes me just because I don't really say it to him (no, really, he told me that because he was baring his soul at the beginning & I didn't return it).
2) He always says something is his "opinion" and whenever we disagree, he says "that's your opinion" unless he agrees w/ it or I can prove it to him logically.
3) He's stopped kissing me because he says that kissing arouses him too much (we don't have sex for various reasons which I'm not going to get into).
4) He & his circle of friends are OK making racist comments because "that's how tight they are".
5) He's stopped texting me & we don't have our usual pre-bedtime phone call - the usual excuse/response is "I'm really busy".

Any advice out there? We can communicate but lately, I've been biting my tongue because he sometimes misconstrues what I say... which causes a disagreement... which causes #2 outlined above.

Thanks!

1.. . what? Bearing his soul... who bears their soul within 3 months?

2. that's fine. He's just nonconfrontational

3. uh... huh... so what do you guys actually do?

4. racist comments... towards you? Then that's not really good.

Overall, red flags. If you guys aren't talking anymore or texting anymore or really doing much of anything... I feel like this relationship's over with.

I would move on and find something else, for one its only beens 3 months and you doing this already so move on...

My boyfriend and I broke up after seven months and several of the things you have stated went on with us as well. He wouldn't call me like normal or text me, and was kind of stand offish. We broke up after an argument. Chances are things might be moving to fast for him and he just needs some space.

Whatever you two had in 3 months was not enough to make it go any further.
The fizzle has gone. Say good bye and be done with it.