hey.. me n my x knew each other n were good friends since t past 3 yrs n v got in2 a relationship 6 months back... v had 2 breakup cos of his family..

he still loves me but can't b together ever. I have 2 c him everyday in coll... I'm absolutely clueless about everything... In fact I dun even know wats going on in my brain.. I dun want to get back with him cos he did not stand by me when I needed him ,but I can't bear 2 c him sad either. He says he wants 2 stay friends or it will b too horrible for him.

is it possible 2 remain friends after such a close relationship? I can't understand..
I can't understand whether ill get better without talking to him... or whether I should continue talking... going crazy... :confused:

Take time apart. Leave him alone for awhile to get himself right. You'll hurt him more by being available to him, it will take longer for him to get over this if your always a phone call away. Distance yourself for a bit.

Next time you write please make it clear. Many will not bother to read your posts if you write like the above. Be clear.

Back off talking to him, and give yourself time to heal, and see how you feel, when the emotional dust settles. Focus on your school work, especially your writing skills.

Does anyone use actual words anymore?