If we liked each other and I tell you I'm a virgin, and then I say "but I'm up for most things and I want to know everything there is to know about sex".

How would you react?

am I into you.. do I like you.. Are you legal?

if that's the case...

=-O

sweet.

We've seem post like this here before, and the results are mixed. Some guys seem really, really intimidated to be with a virgin.

As far as I'm concerned, those are weak men.

All realtionships have "new" aspects. Sex is just one.

Don't do anything you are not ready for... and always, always be willing to talk about sex without it being a fight. Do these things, and you will be OK.

We get in our own way often concerning sex.

Don't be afraid that you "dont have the experience" to keep him interested. If he's that clueless, you don't need him. virginity is not a disease.

I've had a number of sexual relationships, but sex was never the driver. And, unlike most, I was a virgin until I was in my young 20's... dated a girl who simply didn't want to, and in some ways, it made the relationship easier. Not saying that I don't like sex at all... but its not all there is... tho' once you cross over, it'll never be the same... sex IS a great part of a loving relationship.

Anyway... I'm getting off track.

Be true to yourself. Personally... had I dated a women who was a virgin, I never, ever would have thougt "aw man.... i need to back off"...

Relax. Go with your instincts.

Be true to yourself.

After that... all the rest is noise.

Let me show you and let's discover it together.

am I into you...? do I like you..? Are you legal?

if that's the case...

=-O

sweet.

Yes I meant in case you were into me and of course Im legal...

kp2171,

Great reply! Thanks!!

Glad to help

Just try to take a middle tack... some "good" guys might be intimidated, some might not care...

The key to a healthy sex life is an open mind and open discussion. Self explore to figure out what gets you off. Talk to your partner to find out his desires. Talk to him about your desires.

While most men aren't the "talky" type... we sure as hell will listen when it concerns sex. And, at least in my experience, the more you are able to talk openly about sex, the better off you will be.

If you aren't having fun, it isn't right for you.

What does it tell me? That you were a virgin by choice, but you still have a healthy perspective when it comes to sex.

Would I be scared? Not at all. I've always liked women with an adventurous streak.

After all I married one.

Oh, oh.