How does it work, the gay life style when you are not "out"
Do you risk your day/health going from partner to partner and hide it from the one who thinks that you are str8.
What is a typical day and rendezvous like?

You are assuming you are jumping from bed to bed it appears.
And I don't know why ? Most have longer term relastionship just like non gay couples do, they meet, they date, and they stay together.

For those that are not "out" it works more like a married man cheating on his wife, with a mistress, they merely date in areas where their friends don't normally go.

I think you are looking or thinking of more of the careless people who merely hire or jump from lover to lover. Like guys picking up girls for just sex in bars. So in general that would be like a married man just picking up a girl in a bar to have sex, they lie, sneak around and feel worst about it the next day.

Two guys could move in together as roommates or housemates and no one probably would think a thing about it. Two women could do the same thing. I know several gay guys and lesbians who haven't hooked up with anyone in ages. They go to work, to church, to the gym, to restaurants, to the library, and live life just like anyone else does. Gay life is often as boring as straight life.

I think that most homosexual men who are still in the closet are married, religious men who get married to disguise their homosexuality. Christianity in America puts a lot of pressure on homosexual men to be straight because otherwise they spend eternity in a burning hell according to their scriptures.

We see that homosexuals meet other men in bathroom stalls(Sen Larry Craig) and other public places, on the internet(Foley attempting seduction of Congressional pages), and really, just about everywhere! It is about giving off signals to someone else and having a quickie. It is all about hiding who you are for these men. However, some homosexual men have a life long male partner whom they are loyal to and reside with.

Could be lots of variations just like heterosexual people. :) Homosexuals give someone "the eye" and after that... there may or may not be a rendezvous or a perhaps a beating in some cases.

do you risk your day/health going from partner to partner and hide it from the one who thinks that you are str8.

You risk getting HIV/AIDS and giving it to your straight partner. The diagnosis of HIV/AIDS is a death sentence as there is currently no cure.

I agree... pick a side and stick with it. No reason to expose others to stuff they don't have a clue to be expecting. Before someone blows a gasket. AIDS still is far more common in the Gay communities than the straight communities. I don't care what side of the fence you are on. But stay on that side.

Pick a side, stick with it and use safe sex practices.