Hello Askmehelpdesk,

Am I weird?

I am 21, female, I like guys but never had a bf; I don't think about sex, hence I do want to be hugged.
Also I can't tell if guys are hitting on me or not.

I do get along well with males @ school, not a male hater at all.

What's wrong with me? :confused:

LOL there is nothing wrong with you babe! You are just at an age (one that I am extremely close to) where you don't really know what you want or who you want to be with. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 18. The reason for me was that I had a fear of rejection along with some self-esteem issues. Even when all the signs were there that a guy liked me, I could NOT find anyway to believe that he was. About you "not wanting sex," a LOT of women deal with that issue. If you are like I was (and still am to extent), you don't want sex, but you like the "making out" in a relationship. Well.. no need to keep going... to answer your question... NO you are definitely not weird.. you are in fact quite normal. I hope that things work out for you... please feel free to send me a message if you ever want to talk. I hope I could have been of at least a little help.

<3 Leslie

Nothing wrong with you at all :)

In fact id say your more normal than not. It's the kids that bang at 12 and have kids that scare me

You'll get there in your own time :) most of the girlfriends I've had. Never had a boy until they were 22 25


Your doing great ;) and you will make some lucky guy very happy one day!