How will I know if there is a court date, there trying to serve me at my husbands work, I stay home, I live in California, thanks, will I know if they issue a judgement so I know to take the money out of account, and stop my husbands direct deposit paycheck, that's are only income, bascically, can they take it all and make it where we can't pay our mortgage or bills thanks

Are you describing your debt, your husband's debt, or a joint (both of you) debt?

Are you describing your debt, your husband's debt, or a joint (both of you) debt?
The credit card is in my name, but in California it doensnt matter its considered joint

My guess is, your husband's debt is his, and your debt is yours, even in California. In other words, his debts do not appear on your credit report, or vice versa. A case is started when it is filed in a court. At some point, for the case to go forward, you have to be served, usually service is 'personal', and a copy is handed to you. In many instances, the copy of the complaint does not have a court date; it does specify that you must file an answer within so many days (could be 20, 30, 35, whatever the law allows). If you don't answer, the plaintiff can request a default judgement, usually for everything it has asked for in the complaint (principal, interest, attorney fees, and costs). A garnishment/levy may follow after the judgement is entered.