I am madly and deeply in love with this girl that I was dating for 3 - 4 months we got on great she was my everything, but a few months ago she dumped me because her friends thought I was no good and that she deserved better, we've been split up for 5-6 months now and every day I think about her more and more... she tells me that she still loves me buh she got a new boy friend now and she tells me that its to complicated why we can't get back together.. I really need help... cheerz

Sorry to hear that you broke up. Sadly, it sounds like she has moved on. What helps me when going through a breakup is to stay really busy. I go out with my friends a lot, watch funny movies, and try to avoid anything that makes me feel sad period. Maybe it would help if you started taking a class, like art or cooking or just whatever you are interested in. Just to keep your mind off feeling so sad. Check out your local community center, religious organizations (if that applies to you), join a gym, volunteer, just try to fill up your day. Getting involved in activities is a great way to meet girls too. You may not be ready right now, but you could at least make some good friends. Who knows, maybe a friendship could turn into more! The good thing is, that you will already have a common interest as the women you meet there, so it will be easier to talk to them.

Hope this helps! I hope you feel better soon!

Sorry for your loss, but you really do need to move on with your life, and stop all contact with her. She has moved on, and its obvious, her feelings were not as strong as yours. Click the links in my signature, and tell me if they help at all.

She dumped you because her friends thought you weren't good enough for her?? She sounds like a real catch.
Forget about her and meet somebody who respects you for who you are , not someone who is shallow enough to dump you because of what her friends think.

I had that happen to me and I was engaged to the girl,but hey she's moved on to better things and I sometimes wonder what could have been,but not in love with her anymore