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pleaseleavea_message
Jan 24, 2008, 04:39 AM
Why do females hold different men to different standards?
Why will a female, willingly, be a sex toy or the "other" girl.
When did single guys and fidelity become something to beware?
NeedKarma
Jan 24, 2008, 05:33 AM
People are individuals and thus have individual traits. The key is finding the individual that matches the traits you like.
smoothy
Jan 24, 2008, 06:03 AM
Probably as many answers to this as there are people.
Synnen
Jan 24, 2008, 09:24 AM
Why do females hold different men to different standards?
Why will a female, willingly, be a sex toy or the "other" girl.
When did single guys and fidelity become something to beware?
Why do you think these things happen with ALL females?
Give us more of your situation, so that we have more insight on how to answer you.
Choux
Jan 24, 2008, 02:34 PM
1. For adult women, some men are husband material and some men aren't; they are better lover material. Different standards apply to all kinds of situations, not just picking which men to allow into one's bed.
2. This has been a problem since the beginning of time. I, for one, found other women's men more attractive than single, unattached men. I had to watch myself. Some women don't care.
3. This also has been a problem since the beginning of time. Men are genetically engineered to spread their seed; single (and some married) men find a whole lot of women attractive enough to try to seduce them!
Females are genetically engineered to find a strong man to take care of them when they are out of commission due to childbearing issues. Social conventions work to keep men and women in line for the benefit of society. In times of changing values, there is a lot of upset among the populace.
There is always natural tension between men and woman!
Best wishes in the coming year,