About 1 year and a half ago, I met a sweet, wonderful guy that absolutely adored me. We finally started dating about 5 months after we met, and it was great! I thought it was going to last forever... until we had a bad fight and broke up with me. During the following month he started dating a girl to get his mind off me, but he never had and still doesn't have feelings for her. However, all through that month he kept sending me sweet texts saying things like "I still love you" and "I miss you". We even hooked up a few times. Later he told me that he was going to break up with her for me, but he's still having second thoughts about ending with her. Why is it so hard for him to choose me when he knows that he loves me and wants to be with me? My other question is, what should I do??

Why don't you both get on your knees and beg him to choose? Better yet, have a competition, an american gladiator type of thing and the winner gets him.

I don't mean to make fun but c'mon now. He hooks up with another girl a month later? He loves you but is hesitant to end it with her? Wake up sweetheart, he's getting all his cake and eating it too.

Leave him alone and go get someone that would not do this to you. Stringing you along while he is with another girl and using your emotions against you, butalso shame on you for being so naïve and willing to participate( I mean that in the nicest possible way because you seem like a really sweet girl).

Just let him be and look for someone who really loves you, I'm sure your worth it.

As I said in your other post, stop letting him play with your feelings. All it takes is for you to love yourself enough not to put up with his BS. This is not healthy, and you need to change that by leaving his lying A$$, completely alone.