Hello everyone . I am a mess for some months now after a bad break up where we couldn't let totally go off eaxhother . He is younger and his family is against us and we have been having a lot of issues before the initial break up.He is rebounding and tells everyone he doesn't love the new girl who he really treats bad sometimes but sometimes he is just all over her . We tried being friends but he wasn't a really good friend to me .I accepted his relationship with the girl although it hurt and I tried my best to be his friend ,but he behaved jelous and mean if he saw I had friends and I move on with my life without actually dating anyone.
So I started NC on January the 6th after writing a last text to him where I expressed my dissapointment with his selfish behaviour , I suggested I don't need such a friendship and I prefere being two strangers.He called the next day but no apology for his behaviour he ept on with his controlling stuff and his jelousy , so I ended the conversation.Then I tried to stic to my NC , and I did well , on the 14 th after 8 dAYS of NC he writes on messenger referring to my status where I had a funny line , he just said I am glad you are happy , and I replied thanks I am happy for you too .That was all .The next day I receive a phone call from him at 12 midnight hearing our song in the background , he told me he was watching pictures of us , I spoke to him nicely but said I was sleeping because I have to wake up early so he says 'then I am going to let you fall back asleep " and I say OK , and that was it . Then on the 19th he comes with his girlfriend to the place I hang out with my friends , I greeted but didn't talk and had a good time dancing , he left and came back again after a few hours and sat down with one of my friends to talk .Meanwhile he left his girlfriend in a corner and invited this friend of mine for a dring.He started telling him how bored he was how he misses the old friends and invited this guy for a coffee the next day .The the girl who felt really emabarassed asked him to go so they left .The same night towards morning I receive a phone call from him asking where I am and how I am doing and telling me he misses me but obviously I don't . I replied that sometimes I do miss him but I move on .And he invites me for a coffee the same day tlling me that my friend will go too . I agreed , but the next day I did not show up , he called I haven't answered than the friend called and I told him I am away from town with some friends skating . I still haven't heard from him , but any input from you would make me feel lot better. Does he miss me ,or he hates I am having a good time? I heard that he had activities too with his new girlfriend and a lot of new friends he made , yet why does he call? I have to keep this as it is and doing NC although I really love him and miss him too.Please some oppinions

yet why does he call? I have to keep this as it is and doing NC although I really love him and miss him too.Please some oppinions
He is having a harder time with the break than he lets on, but stick to your guns and please stop all the contact with him. He eventually will get the hint.

Stop all contact. Given time his relationship might have a chance but not if he thinks he still has a chance with you. It would never work out for you and him, your families are against it. Move on and let him get on with his life.