I think of myself as a queer woman, as I love *some* women... yet I find myself attracted to queer men... I find queer appropriate. I enjoy super kinky sex... going beyond... all that is considered "NORMAL" I have a[lot] of fetishes yet I think that this one may not be... I was wondering if anyone has any out look on this this topic??

If you are happy with your life, do you really want to hear other's opinions about your choices? Perhaps I don't understand your question?

Different strokes for different folks...

Although your choices may not be considered the norm for all, you do have the right to your personal choices.

There is another saying that there is someone out there for everyone. Hope you find the one for you.

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Just to clarify, you like to have *sex* with gay men? Not just be fabulous friends! You just have to understand that gay men have NO PASSION for women. :) Like the man said, he can make love to a woman if there is a man's photograph on the headboard!

Perhaps, you desire to have kinky sex and outrageous sex is just wanting to have sex without involvement with the person in front of you? No feelings, no passion for him or her, just overwhelming weirdness.

To me, it just sounds like you are going through a phase... testing the limits.


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I think its totally normal. Here's my ? To you. You don't have to answer but what is your fetsh exactly with gay males? And would it transfer over to straight males, but gays are more into it?