So theres this boy, hes a player when it comes to girls who like him, him and i hucked up at a party, but the relationship went no where. i was really falling for him and now that its been a month since his old relationship ended, am throwing myself at him but he doesnt seem to knowtest that i still have feelings for him, how do i know that he has real feelings for me??....what do i write in our e-mail conversations to see if he still likes me, but also let him know that i havent got over him with out sounding desperate??:confused: or in this case "how do i get him to not play with my heart??"

Don't try anything till he's gotten over his ex. He'll be on the rebound and that can only be hurtful for you

First of all, I'm a 24 year old female and have had my fair share of boy problems!! Boys aren't as dumb as they act, chances are he knows that you like him. You said you were throwing yourself on him... BIG MISTAKE!! You need to play "hard to get". If he has any feelings for you at all it will drive him crazy. Try to still be around him but don't act like it's a sure thing that he can have you!

"hard to get" translates as "unavaiable". Most people don't have the time of day for 'hard to get'

Maybe not when you're a little bit older but to a teenager...

Aye that's exactly what I mean