I have been single since October and before that I was dating my best friend Brian. He was my second boyfriend and I thought we were going to last. He seemed so into me and I was crazy over him. He was 17 and I'm only 15 making it a little hard for him to understand things. My family adored him and his family seemed to like me. We had a perfect relationship until one day he decided to break up with me... but the thing that hurt me most is that he had his whole varsity football team call to break up with me, I decided to show up at his practice to see if we could work things out but he said to me he couldn't handle having a girlfriend that was 2 years younger because his friends were constantly picking on him.I was soooo hurt and cried for so long and I thought I could get over him but now its been 3 months and I still can't seem to stop thinking about him. I look for him in the hallways and he always talks to me but the more I see him the more I want to break down. Someone please help me figure out what to do!!
Jessika

Jessika,

It sucks being in the situation you are in. I've not been in the exact situation, but one similar. You don't deserve the way he is treating you. You need to find you a man that isn't "embarrassed" to have you around NO MATTER WHAT!! Who knows, maybe when he sees you with someone else he will realize you aren't just going to wait around for him and he will straighten his act up, or maybe you'll see that this someone else is someone who knows how to treat you. When you talk to him in the halls, just walk by, say hi, but don't go out of your wait to start conversation. Take care of yourself, he's obviously not going to. Later maybe he can get his priorities straight and if he's lucky, it won't be too late.

<3 Leslie