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brittany18
Jan 9, 2008, 06:57 PM
Hi well I've been friends with this person for almost two yeas and wheni first met this person fell in love with that certain person imnot going to tell you their name but lets just call this person "A" okay well A and I have been friends and I'm not sure if A knows that I like her okay I don't know why I like her but she makes my heart soar and yes I'm a female I think she kknows but I'm not really sure. Also I really want to kiss her and I keep dreaming about her but I Also have a boyfriend and I love both of them and I'm not really sure what to do but can you all give me some advice please if you would


Thank you :)

raggablue
Jan 9, 2008, 07:20 PM
There are a few threads with situations just like yours, check and see if they help

nkychic
Jan 11, 2008, 07:04 PM
To truly love someone the way you are talking, you have to be able to give your heart to them. If you give your heart to both this female and your boyfriend your heart is inevitably broken, no matter how you look at it. First you need to find out what it is that YOU want. She is your best friend. You don't ever want to lose a relationship like that, or compromise it in any way. Have you tried talking to her? If she is your best friend, give her a chance to help shed some light on the situation. Good luck and let us know how things turn out.

<3 Leslie

raggablue
Jan 11, 2008, 07:14 PM
To truly love someone the way you are talking, you have to be able to give your heart to them. If you give your heart to both this female and your boyfriend your heart is inevitably broken, no matter how you look at it. First you need to find out what it is that YOU want. She is your best friend. You don't ever wanna lose a relationship like that, or compromise it in any way. Have you tried talking to her? If she is your best friend, give her a chance to help shed some light on the situation. Good luck and let us know how things turn out.

<3 Leslie
Are you a carniege reader?

nkychic
Jan 11, 2008, 07:28 PM
are you a carniege reader?


lol nope, speak only from experience. It's all opinion, that's all I've got to offer. Let's put it short and sweet. Figure out what you want, weigh out the consequences, then go for it or don't =)

raggablue
Jan 11, 2008, 07:46 PM
I meant your sig'