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cutie08
Jan 9, 2008, 02:06 PM
There's this boy and him and I had been pretty good friends but then feelings for each other grew and we eneded up dating. Everything was going really well and then he hung out with his ex girlfriend and realized he still had feelings for her and then he broke up woth me and things changed a lot we no longer really speak and its hard for me to look at him in class. He has two classes with me and they are the ones that I'm doing the worst in. he has also befreinded my worst enemy saying that the only reason he didn't talk to her is because I hated her and he wanted to be with me witch pisses me off cause he pretty much just told me he was fake. And they both have english with me and we have to do these speeches in front of the whole class and I'm scared to get up in front of them how can I fix that? Cause if I don't do it I fail the class... also I don't know I really miss our friendship any tips on how to get that back?

nauticalstar420
Jan 9, 2008, 04:21 PM
There is one thing that you and many other teens need to understand: School is meant for learning, not for hanging out with your friends. Don't ever let some petty feud get in the middle of you getting an education. How is your speech coming along? You should be more worried about that than what other people will think about you.

Don't be scared to get up in front of them. The only person you need to impress with your speech is your teacher, not anyone else. When its your turn to give your speech, concentrate on that and pretend like your ex and that other girl aren't even there. If you pretend like they aren't there, they can't bother you. If they say anything about you or your speech, ignore them.

As far as getting his friendship back, I don't even see why you want to be friends with him. You said yourself that you think he's a fake, why would you want to be friends with a fake? It seems to me that you would be much better off without him. Keep up with your studies! :)