View Full Version : Is it possible to be 100% sure?
Death_Maniac
Jan 6, 2008, 10:38 PM
How do I know if she likes/ loves me? How can I be sure that I'm genuinlly in love w/ her?
I need lots of details, and ANY postings are appreciated
Simple Asian
Jan 6, 2008, 10:46 PM
uhm... first you need to give us more infor first so we can give you all the details you need...
age both of you?. you guys dating ? In a relationship ? Close friends ?
just give us some infor ^^
Dana2007
Jan 6, 2008, 10:46 PM
If you get married, will she be willing to stay with you even when you get sick or lose your job? And if you married her would you be willing to stay even if she got sick and lost her job? How does she react now when you are sick? How does she react when you don't have any money or when you are in between jobs? Do you respect each other? Or do you think you are better than she is and vice versa? Do you respect each other as equals? Does she encourage and support you or does she prefer to keep you down? Do you see each other as equals.
Some people want proof of love by how much money they spend on you. So look into your value system. Do you have similar values?
Some people like to keep the other person down by criticizing and by by withholding affection and knowledge, etc?
Hope I've given you a place to start.
Death_Maniac
Jan 6, 2008, 11:00 PM
Were both sophmores and no were not dating(we barely know eachother)(were o.k. friends)
But ever since I first saw her I've known I wanted to be in her life. I think it might be just a silly crush but it feels too weird for it to be(I think?)
Well?
Simple Asian
Jan 6, 2008, 11:04 PM
uhm.. well I guess you guys still in high school ? ^^
well then it not love then... trust me.. love is something that have to go thought time to fall in love... you have to be in a relationship for so long tat you just so love this person and can't let go of them... hell I don't even no what love feel like yet... so I can't help you much what "love" is.. but I can be sure that you not in love or love her
... so did you guys at least go on a date?. or maybe have each other number and talk daily ? I mean daily daily .not just something like hi bye...
if not then... you like her... why not go up there and talk to her and like hey you want to catch a movie with my sometime?.
you won't no if she likes you or not until you asked her... and tell you the true... if the girls don't no.. you can't blame them
Death_Maniac
Jan 6, 2008, 11:13 PM
Hey dude everything you've said is hapenning and 1 more thing I've been around her for 3 years in 2 very small schools (1000- students)
Death_Maniac
Feb 14, 2008, 12:39 AM
Also what might help is to just take this as a general, not direct question