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bobthesnob
Jan 4, 2008, 11:54 PM
OK um my ex she still says she loves me more than anything and she always will. She lives 50 miles away from me. We both love each other very much, but she doesn't want to date because she thinks she will hurt me again, or she's not obligated to date right now. She says we should date other people, but I just can't its so hard. I tried it and the only thing I could think about was her. She has already dated a guy. You know it bothers me, but I just want her to be happy. I just love her with all my heart and I want her to be happy. But I just don't want to lose her. I love her so much. I just don't know what to do.. :confused:

Simple Asian
Jan 5, 2008, 12:05 AM
if she already date some other pplz then she already move on.. and a girl move on.. you can't do anything.. but also forget her my friends... and you should try something else too ^^

be happy and go to the relationship section.. and read the first 2 stickers..

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/what-expect-when-you-get-dumped-123862.html << read this

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/list-things-do-after-breakup-78597.html <<< and this.. it help... ^^ best wishes man

nkychic
Jan 5, 2008, 09:29 AM
It sounds to me that she is trying to move on, maybe you should too. I know you don't want to lose her, but you can only wait so long for a person to make up their mind. She lives 50 miles away... long distance relationships are hard anyway. It's hard to find a mutual trust when you can't see the person often. I think you should both back away from each other for a while. Try and move on. Who knows, maybe she will want a relationship with you again, or maybe you will realize that she isn't the one that makes you happy after all. Life is just a learning game... live and learn. I wish you the best of luck and let me know how things turn out.

<3 Leslie