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kiwi2738
Jan 4, 2008, 10:56 PM
My Boyfriend and I have been having sex on and off (through our relationship) for about 2 years now. We've NEVER used a condom or any type of protection. There have been many a times he's ejaculated while inside me :eek: (on purpose sometimes) and I've NEVER gotten pregnant. (relief)

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We've been broken up now for a while now and he's seeing another woman. :mad: And she's pregnant after they had only been seeing each other a few months. And before us, he'd had another child but the mother chose to abort.

Why haven't I gotten pregnant?:confused:
Sure I've Been late to my period a couple of times yeah but NEVER PREGNANT?
IS there something wrong with me?:confused:

HarajukuGirl
Jan 5, 2008, 09:38 AM
Well... some women just can not get pregnant, like one of my friends, her doctor told her she can never have kids.

Maybe you shuld go to your doctr and explain your story about what's going on, maybe there is soemthing wrong?

But I heard getting pregnant is very hard... and you have to be ovulating or something.. I don't know honestly...

And about your BF, its okay to be sad :(. Cheeeerup!

But Lukily you are not pregnant,

Tuscany
Jan 5, 2008, 09:47 AM
Honey if you are concerned then go to the Dr. They can run tests and tell you what is going on. But, getting pregnant is not easy and can be affected by many environmental factors like stress.

Now is the time to take care of yourself. Move on from this guy. You deserve more.

Fr_Chuck
Jan 5, 2008, 09:51 AM
It is just perhaps God's grace that you did not have one. Since you would have ended up a single mom.

That does not mean the next time will not result in it. Were you trying to have a baby, sounds like it?? Plus protectoin condoms protects you from a lot more than just being pregnant.

It had mostly to do with the day of the month you had sex, the fertility levels at that time, and just sometimes pure luck,