All right I work with this guy who I've liked for a long time. And I'm just wondering if he likes me back. My coworkers and friends say that he does but I don't know I believe he does. He is a flirtacious guy anyway so he does flirt with me a lot. He is a very confident guy, he's not embarrassed easily.He's always staring at me and joking and teasing me. If I catch him staring at me we get into these long 3 minute staring competitions. I usually turn away blusing and all he does is smile. He insults me but appolizes right away if he thinks he hurt me. He even gave me a nickname that everyone calls me now. Sometimes when I am prepping food in the back at work he'll come up right beside me and just stare at me and smile and ask what I'm doing. He also show's off a lot, he tries to get my attention by being loud and doing funny things. Revently my friend has gotten a crush on him as well. We both text him saying things like Hey sexy thing and stuff like that. He didn't know it was us until the next day. That day my crush came up to me and asked me if my friend liked him because she was flirting with him. I said yes and he said that he liked her as just a friend. What I don't understand is I flirt with him too. He's lost a lot of weight lately and I told him that he lost a lot of weight and looked good, he blushed and said thanks. My friend told him the same thing and he said thanks and don't ask me out. So if he hasn't said anything about not asking him out to me does that mean that he likes me. So Does he like me, should I make a move?

It sounds to me like he does like you. He is letting other girls know not to ask him out, but he is making sure he lets you know that he doesn't like your friend and that he doesn't want her to ask him out. In my opinion, if he didn't like you he would be telling you the same thing as the other girls but he's not. He's sending the signal that he's available. I think that maybe he's just a bit shy or he is thinking that you don't like him. I would totally ask him out or at least ask him what he thinks of you. If he says no then don't beat yourself up over it. Just remember that its his loss not yours. But you will never know until you ask. Take a chance girl. :) good luck and keep us posted.

I agree. I definitely think he likes you. The only thing you want to keep in mind is the difficulty a "work" relationship can bring. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it doesn't work. My boyfriend and I work together and we've been together 4 years superbowl Sunday. I just know we've had to deal with a lot of BS. You can't be jealous by the fact that he is flirtatious because that is part of his personality. I would ask him to go out with you (like on a date). Don't jump into the boyfriend/girlfriend thing until you've talked and been with him outside of work. If you choose not to ask, then make it more obvious to him that you are interested. I say go for it. What's the worse that could happen? Take a chance babe!

<3 Leslie