Why is it so hard for me to find someone I love n who loves me back?

You should ask Santa Claus.

--Cali

Oof ilovcali.

A girl who can't find someone who loves her back isn't going to believe in santa claus.

... ask rudolph. Just kidding.

You may feel this way now... granted, I'm not sure how old you are... but trust me. The avg person falls in love 6 - 7 times in their lifetime, and I don't mean "infatuated"... I mean, true love. So if each person falls in love 6 - 7 times, your chances are purty good.

May I suggest you love yourself enough, to be happy with your life, to attract the people who would want to share that happiness with you. Looking for love seldom works, and can cause a lot of misery along the way. Loving yourself, and life will make you attractive to the right people. Try it, I guarantee it works.