OK, first question: I am 13 and I like this guy that is turning 17 this year. Is that too old to have a relationship with?

Second question:

OK, I have a crush on this guy that is two school years higher than me making him nearly 17 OK I ma 13,he's a senior and I am a junoir in school, OK I only know him because my friends know him, and he passes by me on his motorbike and he plays basket ball with me ad my mates at break.

My friends have started a rumor that I like him and I catch him lookoing at me when he is talking to his friends and when he passes me in the class changes but I immidiatly look away or he looks away.

How do I sort of try to attract him to me? As in to talk to me and stuff ( I know I should just say something) but I dun want to just go up and start rambiling on something if I look like a fool.

He passes by my house on his motorbike ( in spain you can get a motorbike at 14! )

I passed him when he was in his mates mini car at night and my mates said he kept his gaze on us till we had gone.

How do do find out if he likes me? And ius he showing signs of liking me?

Act as if you are already friends with him. Yell "hi" and wave if he's across campus from you. Wave and smile when he goes by on his motorbike. Be alone once in a while, so he has a chance to approach you without your other friends all around. Is he too old for you? You'd have to get to know him to find out how mature he is.

OK

Its not unusual for a young lady your age to really like older guys. I think he is to old for you at this time, but I am from the old school, and can only tell you to stay within your age group. Are you allowed to date by your parents?

At 13, you should be just starting to experience dating and relationships with boys. So it would be better to stick closer to your own age.

The real danger of going after a guy that much older is that the odds are much greater that he will take advantage of you. The major reason that a 17 yr old would be interested in a 13 yr old is physical. So you can't be obvious about your interest in him. If he does show an interest in you, take it slow. Make sure you don't lead him on (wear revealing clothing, flirt etc.) and if he tries anything physically, dump him quick.

Oh OK.