My boyfriend and father of my two children dumped me for no reasons for another woman who is 10 years older than him.I was roughly around 3 months pregnant when he dumped me,however now that I have given birth he called and visit onced a week.He only dropped off pampers and wipes with no money.I want him to be in our lives and be the family we used to be.Please help me find a way to get him back to me and the kids.

Have you spoken with a counselor? It seems you need a plan and there is no reason to try to re-invent the wheel.

You have no control over him, but you can get child support. Do so for your kids. I understand you wanting a father for these kids, but he has proven he ain't it.