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siewwai81
Dec 11, 2005, 08:58 PM
I really love my ex boyfriend. Because of my bad attitude, he dump me.

I have been not a caring, good girlfriend. But I promise that I will change all my bad attitude. He don't trust me. I loved him for 7 years and we dating for a year. I really need him in my whole life. I Love Him. Help me.

JoeCanada76
Dec 11, 2005, 10:44 PM
You need to help yourself. We can not get your boyfriend back for you. You have acknowledged that you made mistakes, and you know what they are. There is nothing wrong with admitting and asking for a second chanch with forgiveness. Give it some time but if things do not get cleared up you can not wait for him forever and eventually you will have to move on, but hopefully it won't come to that. Be honest, tell him how you feel and that you love him and then he needs to be the one to come up with the decision of rather he wants to continue the relationship again or end it.

Joe

fredg
Dec 12, 2005, 05:03 AM
Hi,
I do agree with the other answer about helping yourself first. Why do you have such a bad attitude? Finding out this answer will help you tremendously!
I would go see a professional counselor, or even a doctor; if that's what it takes to find out why you act the way you do.
You can change!!
You can change your attitudes, but it will take someone to help you, and will take some time. You love your ex boyfriend, and eventually, maybe things will work out OK.
You could explain to your ex that you do love him, and that you are working on being a better person. Hopefully, in some time to come, he will realize it. The old saying, "A picture is worth a 1000 words" is true. He will have to see changes before he might be interested in you again; not just you telling him you have changed.
I do wish you the best of luck.

nymphetamine
Dec 12, 2005, 12:32 PM
It doesn't do anygood to tell some one you will change and expect them to stay while you do because many people donot change as they say they will. Make the change first then when you have become enlightened then maybe he will see that and get back with you.

chuff
Dec 5, 2008, 12:52 AM
Why are you dragging up a post that is 3 YEARS OLD from a poster that only posted once and never returned and why does your advice in every post include an advertisement for your website?