My car will not start and I was told to look for the starter on my car but I have no idea where the starter is located I have a 98 honda accord can someone help me? It's a 6 cylinder

For a 4-cylinder Accord, it should be located just behind and below the distributor. It is located on the top side of the transmission--on the passenger side.

This should help you change it yourself:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/cars-trucks/faq-how-troubleshoot-repair-maintain-hondas-46563.html#post219985