My partner (also the father to my son) who I love to bits is soon to move from his area to live with me we have lived together before but at the beginning of our relationship there has been like any other relationship plently of ups and downs. I;'m extremely excited but equally anxious for I'm moving it's a mixture of things that is causing this. Does any one have any advice on how I could grab the bull by the horns and let myself be happy and go for what I want? I think I'm finding it difficult because I've been let down a lot even by him and fell if I stay in the same state of mind I can't get hurt but also can't move forward sounds stupid bu tits where I have got myself

He is willing to come and be with you, and hopefully make it work out with you, and he is your sons father. I say as long as he isn't cheating on you or beating on you you should go for it.