lucky4u
Nov 29, 2007, 01:41 PM
Hi there!
Here is my story !
I and my girlfriend broke up 1 month ago as girlfriend wanted some space for sometime and I couldn't wait as we broke up 2 times more and she was coming usually after 1 day and saing sorry this time I started saying sorry as it was my mistake for about 1 week I tried all things to get her back all emotional messges and calls and to her parents and everything but she became angry and more angry on the end of 1st week of her break up and she told me that she now don't want to see me and she is dead for me!
After that I didn't contact her 1 week and after that when I contact her after 1 week she told that she was worried about my health and about me and wanted to know about me !so I got confidence and I went to her flat and put some flowers and letter about my feelings! Next day she came to me and told that by doing this I am hurting her more and more I already hurted her much in 1st week so she told not to do anything and I asked do you still love me? She told that I love you but we will not be together as we are not made for each other! and she wept and hugged me and kissed on cheeks and told good bye I will remember you all my life I got many good things from you!
I know what mistakes I did and I told her she told we are not for each other!
She took promise from me that not to contact her 1 year so that she will be sure that I don't want her and we can talk and say good luck to each other in life again!
She is very depressed and left job becoz of break up! She doesn't have any other boy and she told she will not have in future too! May be after 6 month or 1 yr she told me!
Now I am confused what to do? She loves me and don't want me!
After that talkings I didn't contact her it has been 10 days today and now what I must do? To wait her and to be a friend or to tell her that I did these mistakes and I will not repeat in future but she doesn't trust me that I will change!
Also important thing she told me that I am forcing her in relationship! And in anger 1 time I told her she will not be happy! When she came to me after my letter she told she is happy without me to show me!
Don't know what to do??
Please advice!!
I shall really appreciate your replies that you spend your costly time to reply me
Here is my story !
I and my girlfriend broke up 1 month ago as girlfriend wanted some space for sometime and I couldn't wait as we broke up 2 times more and she was coming usually after 1 day and saing sorry this time I started saying sorry as it was my mistake for about 1 week I tried all things to get her back all emotional messges and calls and to her parents and everything but she became angry and more angry on the end of 1st week of her break up and she told me that she now don't want to see me and she is dead for me!
After that I didn't contact her 1 week and after that when I contact her after 1 week she told that she was worried about my health and about me and wanted to know about me !so I got confidence and I went to her flat and put some flowers and letter about my feelings! Next day she came to me and told that by doing this I am hurting her more and more I already hurted her much in 1st week so she told not to do anything and I asked do you still love me? She told that I love you but we will not be together as we are not made for each other! and she wept and hugged me and kissed on cheeks and told good bye I will remember you all my life I got many good things from you!
I know what mistakes I did and I told her she told we are not for each other!
She took promise from me that not to contact her 1 year so that she will be sure that I don't want her and we can talk and say good luck to each other in life again!
She is very depressed and left job becoz of break up! She doesn't have any other boy and she told she will not have in future too! May be after 6 month or 1 yr she told me!
Now I am confused what to do? She loves me and don't want me!
After that talkings I didn't contact her it has been 10 days today and now what I must do? To wait her and to be a friend or to tell her that I did these mistakes and I will not repeat in future but she doesn't trust me that I will change!
Also important thing she told me that I am forcing her in relationship! And in anger 1 time I told her she will not be happy! When she came to me after my letter she told she is happy without me to show me!
Don't know what to do??
Please advice!!
I shall really appreciate your replies that you spend your costly time to reply me