_Me_
Nov 28, 2007, 08:15 PM
First, I didn't know what else to title this, and second this is the only place I could think of putting this question. Here it is:
Ok, for a long time, whenever I talk to a person, meet them, shake their hand anything, I instantly get some sort of vibe, or aura, or what ever you want to call it. From this vibe, I can instantly tell if that person is going to be a good person to meet, hang out with, or just plain know. For example, my closest friend introduced me to his, at the time, fiancée, now ex wife. Anyway, when I first met her, I instantly got this real strong negetive vibe, a vibe I really DID NOT like at all. I knew from that moment she was going to be trouble. I tried to talk my friend into breaking up with her, but he tossed it off as me being jealous of her being with him, and me not getting to hang out with him as often and what not, but anyway, now, a year later, they are divorced, and she is causing him all sorts of hell!
That's only one example. Another is when I met my fiancée a year ago. When I first met her, I got a vibe again, but this vibe, I REALLY LIKED, now some would say it was just love, or infatuation, but I know the difference between a vibe, and lust, and this was definitely just a vibe. I knew from when I met her she was going to be faithfule, honest all thos things, and now look, we're getting married soon.
I could give more examples, but I don't want to bore anyone before they even see the real question. The whole reason I am posting this to find an answer is because my fiancée introduced me the other day to a co-worker of hers, that has been working with her for a while, but the strange thing was, when I met her, nothing! No vibe, no feeling, no aura, zippo! So, to be nice, I extended my hand to shake her hand, (shaking hands seems to help me concentrate more on the person) and also, when we shook hands, absolutely nothing! I thought maybe I was off my game or something so I went to a complete stranger and introduced myself, and shook his hand, and I got a good vibe. So, for some reason, I CAN NOT get a vibe from this person! What gives?
If ANYONE has any idea or suggestion, please let me know! Anything to help me understand this! And please, no BS, or beating round the bush, I do realise its only people opinions or ideas, but I am at a loss for words now, any help?
Ok, for a long time, whenever I talk to a person, meet them, shake their hand anything, I instantly get some sort of vibe, or aura, or what ever you want to call it. From this vibe, I can instantly tell if that person is going to be a good person to meet, hang out with, or just plain know. For example, my closest friend introduced me to his, at the time, fiancée, now ex wife. Anyway, when I first met her, I instantly got this real strong negetive vibe, a vibe I really DID NOT like at all. I knew from that moment she was going to be trouble. I tried to talk my friend into breaking up with her, but he tossed it off as me being jealous of her being with him, and me not getting to hang out with him as often and what not, but anyway, now, a year later, they are divorced, and she is causing him all sorts of hell!
That's only one example. Another is when I met my fiancée a year ago. When I first met her, I got a vibe again, but this vibe, I REALLY LIKED, now some would say it was just love, or infatuation, but I know the difference between a vibe, and lust, and this was definitely just a vibe. I knew from when I met her she was going to be faithfule, honest all thos things, and now look, we're getting married soon.
I could give more examples, but I don't want to bore anyone before they even see the real question. The whole reason I am posting this to find an answer is because my fiancée introduced me the other day to a co-worker of hers, that has been working with her for a while, but the strange thing was, when I met her, nothing! No vibe, no feeling, no aura, zippo! So, to be nice, I extended my hand to shake her hand, (shaking hands seems to help me concentrate more on the person) and also, when we shook hands, absolutely nothing! I thought maybe I was off my game or something so I went to a complete stranger and introduced myself, and shook his hand, and I got a good vibe. So, for some reason, I CAN NOT get a vibe from this person! What gives?
If ANYONE has any idea or suggestion, please let me know! Anything to help me understand this! And please, no BS, or beating round the bush, I do realise its only people opinions or ideas, but I am at a loss for words now, any help?