22 yr old kid, small frame, BMI 20
Post puberty at 13 gynecomastia (male breasts), very skinny build
You can imgaine the torment, skinny with breasts
Told its normal, grading - 2 inch elevation
From 13 - 22 years old, calm and collected on street, in a dangerous situation result in crying, when in room by oneself sometimes rage fits
At 22 years old, abnormal feeling of butterflies in stomach once a day and considerable hair loss
Testicle and penis in normal range, normal secondary hair distribution, normal secondary puberty development, intelligent person

Any thoughts? Increase estrogen - low testoserone in body?

I do not want to sound rude because I am certainly, not ever under no circumstances that way, so please do not take it that way. But you are asking people you do not even know for help, I could be Jack The Ripper for all you know. Have you been to the doctor? If yes what did he say? Some body here may be able to help you but I think it would be best if you were to see a doctor to get proper diagnoses of your condition. There are many things it could be.

I will go to doctor, I'm just looking for opinions
Hopefully professional opinions so when I do go to doctor I can say I think it is this or this

Did you try Web MD symptom Checker (http://www.webmd.com/medical_information/check_symptoms/default.htm) it could be most helpful to you, if you are looking to be informed when you do go to the doctor.

Sorry i was not sure what you were looking for before.

Just tell your doctor that you are afraid you may have a hormone imbalance and point out all of the symptoms you listed here. If you don't get a satisfactory response from the doctor then see an endocrinologist. They are doctors who specialize in hormonal issues.