Okay so I have this friend josh, and he drives me insane sometimes. He recently became "ungay". Meaning he was and now he's not.. I don't really think that's how it works, but if he wants to change and find peace within himself I say more powa to you. So he says he's not gay, but lets just say he knows every single word of every fergie song out there. I personally think he's in denial, but what do I know. Anyway he is totally stuck on himself, he never stops talking about what's going on with him. It drives me so insane that I just want to choke him sometimes. I know it's probably something to do with him feeling insecure about himself or something. But I don't know how much longer I can take it before I just slap the gay right out of him. What should I say or how do I bring it up that no one really cares what he's doing every second of his precious life...

Two issues here

1. he is gay, move on.

2. he likes to talk abot himself-guess what, So does everybody. You just don't realise how much you may be doing it yourself!

I highly doubt that he has changed from being gay to not (unless he is a teen and was "experimenting" with his sexuality-in this case he wasn't gay in the first place). You cannot "decide" to not be gay. You are or, you are not gay.

He sounds very low in confidence so he is trying to boost himself up in your standing and your friendship. He sounds a litle immature. So don't worry.