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BambiStarlight
Nov 15, 2007, 03:37 AM
So I've been having this flirtatious thing with this guy and to get to the point, I don't exactly know what he wants and at this point in time, I don't particularly care anymore.. heh..

Anyway, he went out with a bunch of my friends last night and one of my friends asked him what's up between me and him... he changed the topic without answering.. she had to repeat it a few times as she wanted an answer but he kept changing the topic until finally he said that we're just friends.

A few hours before, someone else asked him about another girl and he didn't have any qualms in answering the question immediately...

So, although I know I can't generalize it, usually what does that entail? That he hates talking about me and that I'm an uncomfortable topic?

Help! :D

tickle
Nov 15, 2007, 05:23 AM
So now you know your friends are blabbermouths and nosey to boot and now you certainly know that he would like to remain private about his personal life. Open up communication with him and ask him if he thinks you are an uncomfortable topic. You may be surprised with the answers. Or maybe he just likes flirting as some people do and that's just all it was.

BambiStarlight
Nov 15, 2007, 06:15 AM
I'd like to go with the latter actually cause he's flirtatious with most girls anyway.. but I don't know if I should ask him... he knows that I have feelings for him but he's a little immature to actually be a gentleman and not do things that will instigate my feelings even more..

But thank you!