anonymous1221
Nov 11, 2007, 08:54 PM
I am 27yrs old. Single dad 2 kids. I have no criminal record, no fines ever, nothing. My record is clean. I recently made the worst decision in my life. Ohh, I live in ontario canada.
So here goes:
I was recently at store and got caught stuffing $18 worth of groceries in my bag. The Loss prevention officer caught me, brought me into the office. He took my info down, called the police but said that I met protocol as I did not have a criminal record, valid id and was extremely co-operative. He made me sign a paper which was for his records and one that he was putting in his report and to send to the police. He gave another yellow paper stating that the store might send me a fine due to recover the losses of the $18 merchandise, time for investigation, trouble for the customers, etc... He told me that since the police did not attend, that I was not being charged. He told me that the police have 6mths to send me a notice stating that they are charging me ( if they decide to do so) to appear for fingerprints and court. He said that he does not see this happening. I have since spoken to him and the store manager, the store manager said that he would be more than happy to say I was extremely concerned with my actions and that I was co-operating. Also, I have spoken to the loss prevention officer and said the following:
- That he does not see them pressing charges because its my first time ever being in trouble, that I have no criminal record, and that I met protocol on the night in question. He said that the police are back loggedand have bigger things to worry about but that if it happened again, that at that point, I could be charged and in allot of trouble.
On the night in question, I spoke to officer who took the call from the store, she told me not to worry about it, that they take the report, send it to the crown and then they decide if its worth it to pursue with charges against me. She said that it will more than likely not happen and if anything was to happen, because its my first time in trouble, that I would more than likely be given the option to take a course on shoplifting and once the course is completed that all charges would be removed and no criminal record. The only thing that the info stays on their in house system only and no record. She pretty much told me " keep your sticky fingers to yourself and dont worry about it ".
I spoke to a colleague who is an ex-cop. He told me that he never sent anyone a notice for the trespass to property act. He said that he is 99% sure that nothing will come out of this and not to worry. He said that I was looking into this too much. He said that the fact that I have no record, first offense for $18 shoplifiting, the cops have bigger things to worry about and would cost too much for the crown to proceed with charges as not worth it. Said not to do it again, pay the fine from the store. Pay the fine for the trespass to property act if I get one and to move one.
I also went to the police station and spoke to a really nice constable. After explaining the story, he told me " Don't worry about it and don't do it again " He said that the police have bigger worries and not to do it again or else I could be in allot of trouble. He told me that he does not see them sending me a notice saying they are pressing charges as I have no criminal record, not even a fine to my name. He said that since the police did not bother to attend, that the chances of me getting charged are slim to none. He said that they keep it on their in house system and that's it.
So my questions are the following :
- After what I just told you, do you see them proceeding with criminal charges even if the police did not attend?
- If I do get charged, could I do jail time for $18 worth of stuff, first offense. Could I do the diversion program to avoid criminal charges and a criminal record ?
- If I do not get charged, could this pop up on a criminal check for employment since it is only being kept on the in house system on the local police?
- Can my employer find out about this ? ( I work in the financial industry)
- How important is it for me to pay the fine from store? ( if I get one )
- Since the police did not attend, am I pretty much lucky and getting a warning and a slap on the wrist?
- As per above and from what I was told, Am I worrying too much and looking too much into this?
Thank you
So here goes:
I was recently at store and got caught stuffing $18 worth of groceries in my bag. The Loss prevention officer caught me, brought me into the office. He took my info down, called the police but said that I met protocol as I did not have a criminal record, valid id and was extremely co-operative. He made me sign a paper which was for his records and one that he was putting in his report and to send to the police. He gave another yellow paper stating that the store might send me a fine due to recover the losses of the $18 merchandise, time for investigation, trouble for the customers, etc... He told me that since the police did not attend, that I was not being charged. He told me that the police have 6mths to send me a notice stating that they are charging me ( if they decide to do so) to appear for fingerprints and court. He said that he does not see this happening. I have since spoken to him and the store manager, the store manager said that he would be more than happy to say I was extremely concerned with my actions and that I was co-operating. Also, I have spoken to the loss prevention officer and said the following:
- That he does not see them pressing charges because its my first time ever being in trouble, that I have no criminal record, and that I met protocol on the night in question. He said that the police are back loggedand have bigger things to worry about but that if it happened again, that at that point, I could be charged and in allot of trouble.
On the night in question, I spoke to officer who took the call from the store, she told me not to worry about it, that they take the report, send it to the crown and then they decide if its worth it to pursue with charges against me. She said that it will more than likely not happen and if anything was to happen, because its my first time in trouble, that I would more than likely be given the option to take a course on shoplifting and once the course is completed that all charges would be removed and no criminal record. The only thing that the info stays on their in house system only and no record. She pretty much told me " keep your sticky fingers to yourself and dont worry about it ".
I spoke to a colleague who is an ex-cop. He told me that he never sent anyone a notice for the trespass to property act. He said that he is 99% sure that nothing will come out of this and not to worry. He said that I was looking into this too much. He said that the fact that I have no record, first offense for $18 shoplifiting, the cops have bigger things to worry about and would cost too much for the crown to proceed with charges as not worth it. Said not to do it again, pay the fine from the store. Pay the fine for the trespass to property act if I get one and to move one.
I also went to the police station and spoke to a really nice constable. After explaining the story, he told me " Don't worry about it and don't do it again " He said that the police have bigger worries and not to do it again or else I could be in allot of trouble. He told me that he does not see them sending me a notice saying they are pressing charges as I have no criminal record, not even a fine to my name. He said that since the police did not bother to attend, that the chances of me getting charged are slim to none. He said that they keep it on their in house system and that's it.
So my questions are the following :
- After what I just told you, do you see them proceeding with criminal charges even if the police did not attend?
- If I do get charged, could I do jail time for $18 worth of stuff, first offense. Could I do the diversion program to avoid criminal charges and a criminal record ?
- If I do not get charged, could this pop up on a criminal check for employment since it is only being kept on the in house system on the local police?
- Can my employer find out about this ? ( I work in the financial industry)
- How important is it for me to pay the fine from store? ( if I get one )
- Since the police did not attend, am I pretty much lucky and getting a warning and a slap on the wrist?
- As per above and from what I was told, Am I worrying too much and looking too much into this?
Thank you