View Full Version : So I'm a virgin at age of 17
Yarnofstring
Nov 7, 2007, 09:56 AM
Im not coming into this saying I'm depressed or sad about being a virgin.
Because I can say I have a lot of close friends that are girls ,all tha jazz.
It just doesn't make sense that people think because you're a virgin your impossible to date:mad: , I'm mean through out my teenhood I've had 3 rejections, went as far as making out and still people are like, your too innocent which I find insulting. Its not like I care I know the first doesn't have to be the last, frankly I don't want my first to be my last,
I don't understand what it is that makes a virgin so unattainable that no wants to date him or her. That's question one
And the other
How do I get of the "virgin game" at my age?
Wondergirl
Nov 7, 2007, 10:05 AM
Why would you want to get out of the "virgin game" as you call it?
Guys love virgins. They want to sow their wild oats and deflower lots of virgins, but then want to marry one.
You are in a most desirable situation. Hold tight to your virginity. It will pay off someday when you can present it to your husband as a very special gift that shows you value not only yourself but also value him.
Non-virgins are a dime a dozen. Be special! Be proud!
La Siesta Encantada
Nov 7, 2007, 10:33 AM
Don't WORRY BE PROUD YOU ARE A VIRGIN. You go girl don't worry if they don't want to date you because you are a virgin then they are not worth you time. Have fun and don't worry you meet the right one. AND please please don't have sex because you think you need to. GOOD LUCK AND STAY STRONG!! :D ;)
danielnoahsmommy
Nov 7, 2007, 10:36 AM
Why would the subject come up that you are a virgin early in a relationship.. a virgin is what you are not who you are. If they don't like it too bad. Good moral character (not to say non virgins no charachter) is hard to comeby and your virginity is part of your moral fiber. Someday you will find someone who will appreciate this.
LearningAsIGo
Nov 7, 2007, 02:00 PM
Guys with a heart won't mind dating a virgin. Jerks who bow to peer pressure will be the only ones who make an issue of it. Be proud of yourself... lots of kids your age have gotten pregnant, contracted and STD or done something they've lived to regret. Its funny... the people that sleep around get bad reps and others don't want to date them too. ;) At least you won't have any regrets for waiting.
Its really no ones business what you have or have not done sexually.
Fr_Chuck
Nov 7, 2007, 04:40 PM
Very true, the guys worth dating don't mind you being a virgin, and when you are older and into a serious relationship, they will be much happier for it.
hollylovesbrandon
Nov 7, 2007, 10:09 PM
My husband was a virgin until he got with me and he was 17. I didn't lose mine until I met him, I was 17. To someone that's truly going to care about you, virginity won't matter.
JoeCanada76
Nov 7, 2007, 10:15 PM
My wife and I are the same age. We did not lose ours until we were 27 or 28.