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cassandrita
Nov 5, 2007, 10:14 PM
Hello,

I come from a family where marriage is very important and living together is not seeing as acceptable. Although, I don't see it the same way, I'm constently debating weather or not should I wait for marriage or just move in with my boyfriend. My partner would love for me to get a new place with him, but I am somewhat unsure. I do want to get married one day, but not now... when the time comes it will come...
But I don't know if it is still factual, but some say that most couple who move in together do not get married/ end up to get married?

My question would be what are the pros and cons of living together before marriage or just jumping into getting married?

Thanks

BiWiccanAndProud
Nov 26, 2007, 11:19 AM
Well I don't know what are the pros and cons? You got to ask yourself that. Make a T chart and write down what you think they are. As for your families beliefs, those are THEIR beliefs and let them know that! If you want to move in with him then do it! See how it works out! I'll be you guys will do just fine ^.^